when destiny takes over...

ok! here is a word I very seldom use in my vocabulary...destiny/fate. Truly always believed that we are where we are, etc etc simply because of the choices we make at some point and our own efforts or the lack of it. But sometimes some things just happen! We dont put any effort, we dont draw them towards us (atleast not conciously), we make terrible stupid goofups which should actually make them work otherwise, and we also come to a point where we dont want things to happen and simply avoid anything to do with it. And they happen, and you feel the rug pulled from beneath your feet. You dont know if its for better or for worse.....And like our famous Murphy says, they will happen at the most inopportune moments...when you really really dont want them to or actually dont want them to ever happen! The best part is, you have to pretend that everything's normal and cool and get on with life....ok! I really dont know where I am going with this...just had to put this down.....